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From Self-Care to We-Care: The New Science of Mindful Boundaries and Caring from an Undivided Heart

by Jordan Quaglia, PhD + Foreword by Daniel J. Siegel, MD

Learn to harmonize self-care with caring for others through we-care, a science-based approach designed to enhance personal and social well-being, promote healthy boundaries, and offer a path of healing and transformation.

"Combining neuroscience and contemplative practice, Jordan Quaglia offers quantitative backing for the felt experience of our interconnected nature—compassion and care become far more potent when they are extended not only to ourselves but to a broader circle of ‘we.’"

Sharon Salzberg, author of Lovingkindness and Real Life

Too many of us are familiar with the burnout that can come from overextending ourselves for others. Self-care is often promoted as the solution to this imbalance, but there are growing concerns that an overemphasis on self-care is exacerbating interpersonal challenges, fraying the fabric of our communities, and diminishing our responsiveness to broader social issues. In a world where time can feel increasingly scarce, we find ourselves in a dilemma: should we prioritize ourselves or others? Yet as psychologist and compassion scientist Jordan Quaglia demonstrates, this choice is based on a false dichotomy. The emerging science and practice of we-care reframes the very concept of care as a social force that includes both self and other.

Through personal stories, guided inquiries, practical social exercises, and insights from cutting-edge neuroscience, Quaglia offers a framework and toolset designed to help you find a more balanced way to express your innate sense of compassion. This holistic approach sparks transformative changes across your health, relationships, and work—uplifting yourself and others while supporting a stronger, more connected society for us all.

To claim your free ebook, The Reverse Practice Series, simply order the book, then click here to enter your information. For more about this bonus content, scroll to the end of this page.

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Editorial Reviews

“If you’ve ever felt the quiet tug of war between caring for yourself and caring for others, this book offers a profound and timely recalibration. With the clarity of a scientist and the heart of a fellow traveler, Jordan Quaglia weaves together research and lived experience to offer accessible, evidence-informed practices to replenish and sustain us. From Self-Care to We-Care reminds us that tending to our own well-being isn’t separate from caring for others—it’s what makes it possible to show up fully, wisely, and wholeheartedly.”


Amishi Jha, author of Peak Mind

“From Self-Care to We-Care challenges our fundamental assumptions about the relationship between self-care and caring for others. By weaving together research, personal insights, and practical wisdom, this groundbreaking book offers readers powerful tools for transforming their relationships and approach to care. Essential reading for anyone seeking deeper understanding of human connection and the nature of human flourishing.”


Cortland Dahl, PhD, author of A Meditator’s Guide to Buddhism and creator of the Healthy Minds Program app

“Marked by insight and a gentle, curious, multilayered approach to the questions it poses, the book invites investigating with deep critical thought and a compassionate heart.”


Foreword Reviews: Read the full review here

“In this powerful book, Jordan Quaglia provides a carefully curated survey of scientific studies and inspiring stories about how we can live into the notion of what he calls we-care…With gratitude for this deep and timely inspiration, we can thank our courageous and insightful guide for this illuminating and empowering gift.”


Daniel J. Siegel, MD, author of IntraConnected

Bonus eBook: The Reverse Practice Series

This free ebook introduces three unique we-care practices: Reverse Self-Care from the book, plus two new practices—Reverse Other-Care and Appreciating We-Care. Each practice involves a unique perspective shift to help you experience the natural interconnection between self-care and care for others. The series works both as a standalone introduction to we-care and as a companion that deepens engagement with the book’s content before and after publication.